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The Philosophy Of The Social Man

The Social Man is not so much a company as it is a mindset and a way of being. It is a man whose passion, love, and respect for the world radiate from him. He is attractive every moment of every day, not merely for what he has done, but for who he is.

Our mission is to help men become better with women socially, and in life. We know that these areas are deeply related, and that he who seeks better women in his life will ultimately realize that he must become a better man.

While the things that brought us together were similar, our individual experiences were remarkably different, and we come together a team of equals, with distinct skills as coaches and as teachers. We respect each other, learn from each other, and grow with each other.

We care for and respect the women in our lives: our mothers, our sisters, our girlfriends, and the women we meet day in and day out. We enjoy our ability to bring joy to their lives, and we relish in their company and companionship. We wish the same for every man.

And most importantly, we believe in every man’s ability to improve his skills with women. Flirting is a gift to give, and listening is an art form. Tending to a relationship means tending to yourself. Very few men were born as naturals with women, but that doesn’t mean that a man cannot learn to become natural around them.

In fact, we’ve collectively worked with hundreds of clients over the past five years, and reached out to millions with our writings and our thoughts. Some of us have been featured in popular print, radio and television. We’ve seen transformation after transformation.

We work with clients wherever their social lives are in need of evolution. Some men merely need momentum and encouragement, others need to develop a new set of conversation tools, and break some bad habits that are holding them back.

Others may need to go deep and work to find their core confidence. That we have all been down this path, have taught it to others, and that The Social Man exists is the ultimate proof that “this stuff works.”

But it doesn’t work without heart. We’ve picked the name The Social Man because it represents the evolution of a man’s best self; it is the man we all want to be. Effortlessly engaging, giving instead of taking, a leader of men and a friend and lover of women.

Christian Hudson is the founder and CEO of The Social Man. He started this company over a decade ago with the vision of teaching men how to get better with women. This goes far beyond “pickup.” Christian wants each and every man to reach their full potential in dating, career, health, and so much more.

This desire for men to live their best lives comes from the many years that he’s worked to improve his own life. He was once a shy and anxious teenager who transformed himself into a socially smart guy who’s dated models, built businesses, and traveled the world.

Read more about Christian Hudson.


Nick Sparks honed his social skills while in college. He rented a room at a sorority house that was filled with gorgeous women. It was there that he learned the tips and tricks of attracting beautiful women that NO ONE was talking about.

Since then he’s taught countless men how to implement these tips and tricks to start dating the women they truly desire. His genuine heart and care for his students has led him to be one of the highest rated dating coaches in the world.

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Christopher Gramuglia is the head writer for The Social Man. Chris has jumped leaps and bounds in his skills with dating and relationships. His knowledge is vast and he knows how to break down complex concepts into simple ideas that can help any man improve their life.

He’s got a Master’s in Creative Writing, he’s a personal trainer, and he’s had the pleasure of dating countless beautiful women. Through it all, he’s perfected the art of writing the best articles on the internet for becoming The Social Man.

Read more about Christopher Gramuglia.

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